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10 Evidence-Based Strategies to Keep Youth Sports Healthy and Positive for Your Child by Adam Wright, Ph.D., LAC, CMPC
Sports can offer children lasting physical, emotional, and social benefits. However, youth sports must remain a positive,...


I Was the Queen of Threats... But Awful at Boundaries by Fern Weis, Parent + Family Recovery Coach
Wondering why your boundaries aren’t working? You may be confused about what a boundary actually is. It’s definitely not a threat. And...


When Parenting Feels Like One Big Mistake by Fern Weis, Parent + Family Recovery Coach
Many parents of teens and tweens struggle with a persistent feeling of failure. They pour their time, energy and love into raising their...


Who Gets to Narrate the Autistic Experience? by Elena Croy, Writer/Editor + National Down Syndrome Society DS Ambassador
One of the most intimidating parts of contributing to Bergen County Moms is the high bar I set for myself: to share the disability...


Experience is the Best Teacher: Preparing Kids for Life Beyond Academics by Fern Weis, Parent + Family Recovery Coach
As parents, our primary job is to prepare our children for life. Yet, so much emphasis is placed on academic preparation for college,...


Shaping Tomorrow: Saddle River Day Launches Middle School National STEM Honors Society Chapter + OPEN HOUSE April 25th
The Merriam-Webster definition of the word “middle” is, variously, “being in the midst of something,” “something intermediate,” or “the...


Does Your Advice Really Help? Ask Yourself One Simple Question First by Fern Weis, Parent + Family Recovery Coach
The idea of asking, "Does this really need to be said?" is a powerful tool for parents of teens navigating daily challenges. During...


The Homework Wars by Fern Weis, Parent + Family Recovery Coach
Homework. It is almost always on the list of concerns parents bring to me. It is a routine cause of frustration and helplessness for...


Celebrating World Down Syndrome Day 2025: Advocacy for Change and Awareness by Elena Croy, Writer/Editor + National Down Syndrome Society DS Ambassador
There is a special beauty in celebrating the Down syndrome community just as spring is surfacing here in northern New Jersey. Our bulbs...


Stop Arguing with Reality: Positive Strategies for Parenting Teens by Fern Weis, Parent + Family Recovery Coach
Byron Katie, creator of ‘The Work,’ wisely says, “When you argue with reality, you lose... 100% of the time.” This is especially true for...


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Saddle River Day School Breaks Ground on the New Dr. Kristen Walsh Hall of Science and Entrepreneurship
Saddle River Day School proudly announces the groundbreaking of the Dr. Kristen Walsh Hall of Science and Entrepreneurship, a 33,000...


The Art of Listening: Helping Your Teen by Saying Less by Fern Weis, Parent + Family Recovery Coach
Getting our kids to open up seems like an impossible goal. We're met with one-word answers, grunts, eye-rolling or outright annoyance....


Why Doesn’t Your Kid ‘Just Do It’? The Truth About Motivation and Change by Fern Weis, Parent Coach
Motivation to change doesn't happen in a straight line, and it isn't just about self-control. Change is difficult because the things that...


Limit Your 'Scream Time' by Fern Weis, Parent + Family Recovery Coach
It’s easy to lose your cool when emotions run high. Parenting can test your patience, especially when communication breaks down. But...


Vulnerability: Why You Need to Go There by Fern Weis, Parent + Family Recovery Coach
Being vulnerable can feel like a trap. Spill your guts and you open yourself up to recriminations, repercussions, and rejection. It’s...


Worry Less. The Kids Can Figure It Out. By Fern Weis, Parent + Family Recovery Coach
I used to believe that if I worried less, it meant I cared less. (Caring less was not an option.) That belief kept me in a constant state...


Do Too Much and They Remain Children by Fern Weis, Parent + Family Recovery Coach
Does this hit home for you? If you jump in too quickly, you deprive your children of chances to find their grit, creativity and...


How Do We Access Community? By Elena Croy, Writer/Editor + National Down Syndrome Society DS Ambassador
Henry and Hope with a friend from Joyful Noise, St. Elizabeth’s children’s choir. One of the reasons I love to write is that writing...


Intentional Parenting: Moving Beyond Your Upbringing by Fern Weis, Parent + Family Recovery Coach
A pattern appears in many parents’ approach to raising their children: 1. You love how you were brought up and want to repeat it with...
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