Maternal Mental Health: Postpartum Therapy & Support in NJ by Dr. Konstantin Lukin, Ph.D.

Bergen County Moms
Oct 16, 2025
8 min read

A mother lovingly cradles her sleeping baby, both in soft gray attire with star patterns, in a serene, light-filled room.

Becoming a mother brings profound joy alongside unexpected challenges. While many people expect pregnancy and the postpartum period to be filled with happiness, the reality often includes complex emotions, physical changes, and mental health struggles that catch new mothers off guard. At the Lukin Center for Psychotherapy, we understand that maternal mental health deserves the same attention and care as physical health during this transformative time.

Our specialized maternal mental health services provide comprehensive support for mothers experiencing postpartum depression, anxiety, and other perinatal mood disorders across our seven Northern New Jersey locations in Chatham, Englewood, Hoboken, Jersey City, Montclair, Ridgewood, and Westfield, as well as through telehealth.

Understanding Maternal Mental Health Challenges

Maternal mental health encompasses the emotional and psychological wellbeing of women during pregnancy, postpartum, and beyond. While “baby blues” affect up to 80% of new mothers and typically resolve within two weeks, perinatal mood and anxiety disorders (PMADs) are more serious conditions requiring professional support.

Common Maternal Mental Health Conditions

Postpartum Depression affects approximately 1 in 7 women and can develop anytime during the first year after childbirth. Symptoms extend beyond typical sadness and may include persistent feelings of emptiness, difficulty bonding with your baby, changes in appetite or sleep patterns beyond normal newborn disruption, thoughts of harming yourself or your baby, and overwhelming guilt or inadequacy as a mother.

Perinatal Anxiety Disorders manifest as constant worry about your baby’s health or safety, intrusive thoughts about something bad happening, physical symptoms like racing heart or difficulty breathing, perfectionist tendencies around parenting, and avoidance of situations that trigger anxiety. Research from the National Institute of Mental Health indicates that anxiety disorders may be even more common than depression during the perinatal period.

Postpartum OCD involves unwanted intrusive thoughts about your baby, often violent or disturbing in nature, along with compulsive behaviors to neutralize these thoughts. It’s crucial to understand that these intrusive thoughts don’t reflect your true desires and are a symptom of a treatable condition.

Birth Trauma and Postpartum PTSD can develop after difficult births, medical complications, or feeling unsupported during delivery. Women may experience flashbacks to the birth, avoidance of reminders of the experience, hypervigilance about their baby’s health, and difficulty with intimacy or subsequent pregnancies.

Our Specialized Approach to Maternal Mental Health

At the Lukin Center, we recognize that every mother’s experience is unique. Our approach combines evidence-based therapies with compassionate, non-judgmental support tailored to your specific needs.

Meet Our Maternal Mental Health Specialist

Carrie Fogel, LCSW, PMH-C, is our dedicated maternal mental health specialist with advanced training in perinatal mood disorders. As a Perinatal Mental Health Certified (PMH-C) clinician, Carrie brings specialized expertise in supporting mothers through pregnancy, postpartum challenges, and the transition to parenthood. Her compassionate approach helps mothers navigate the complex emotional landscape of this life-changing period while developing practical coping strategies and building confidence in their parenting abilities.

Evidence-Based Treatment Modalities

Our maternal mental health services utilize proven therapeutic approaches:

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) helps identify and change negative thought patterns that contribute to postpartum depression and anxiety. According to the American Psychological Association, CBT has strong evidence supporting its effectiveness for treating perinatal mood disorders.

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) teaches mothers to accept difficult emotions rather than fighting them, while taking action aligned with their values as parents. This approach is particularly effective for managing the perfectionism and self-criticism many new mothers experience.

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) provides practical skills for emotion regulation, distress tolerance, and mindfulness—essential tools for navigating the intensity of early motherhood.

Interpersonal Therapy addresses relationship changes and role transitions that accompany becoming a mother, helping you communicate needs to your partner, family, and support network.

Comprehensive Support Throughout Your Journey

Pregnancy and Prenatal Mental Health

Mental health challenges don’t always wait until after delivery. Many women experience depression or anxiety during pregnancy, which can impact both maternal and fetal health. Our individual therapy services provide support for pregnant women navigating anxiety about childbirth, managing pregnancy complications, processing previous pregnancy loss or trauma, and preparing for the postpartum period.

Postpartum and Beyond

The postpartum period brings dramatic physical, hormonal, and lifestyle changes. We provide targeted support for adjusting to your new identity as a mother, bonding with your baby, managing sleep deprivation and exhaustion, navigating relationship changes with your partner, and returning to work while managing guilt and separation anxiety.

Couples and Family Support

Becoming parents transforms relationships. Our couples counseling services help partners navigate communication challenges around parenting, division of household labor and childcare, intimacy and connection after baby, and managing differing parenting styles. We also offer family therapy to help older children adjust to a new sibling and address family dynamics.

When to Seek Help

Many mothers hesitate to seek help, wondering if their feelings are “normal” or if they should be able to manage on their own. According to Postpartum Support International, you should reach out for professional support if your symptoms persist beyond two weeks, interfere with daily functioning and caring for your baby, include thoughts of harming yourself or your baby, or prevent you from sleeping even when you have the opportunity.

Remember: seeking help is not a sign of weakness or failure as a mother. It’s a courageous step toward healing and being the parent you want to be.

Why Choose the Lukin Center for Maternal Mental Health Care

As Northern New Jersey’s largest mental health practice, we offer distinct advantages for mothers seeking support:

Specialized Expertise: Our clinicians, particularly Carrie Fogel, LCSW, PMH-C, have advanced training specifically in perinatal mental health. We understand the unique challenges of this period and provide informed, compassionate care.

Personalized Matching: Dr. Konstantin Lukin personally matches every client with a therapist whose training, personality, and approach align with their needs. This ensures you work with someone you connect with and trust.

Flexible Options: We offer both in-person sessions across seven convenient Northern New Jersey locations and secure teletherapy services, making it easier to access care despite the demands of motherhood.

Comprehensive Services: Beyond individual therapy, we provide couples counseling, family therapy, and coordination with psychiatric services if medication might be helpful as part of your treatment plan.

Evidence-Based Approach: Our practice is built on proven therapeutic methodologies backed by research. We stay current with the latest developments in maternal mental health treatment.

Additional Resources for Maternal Mental Health

Beyond therapy, numerous resources can support your maternal mental health journey:

Postpartum Support International: 1-800-944-4773 (call or text, English and Spanish)
SAMHSA National Helpline: 1-800-662-4357 (free, confidential, 24/7)
National Maternal Mental Health Hotline: 1-833-TLC-MAMA (1-833-852-6262)

For immediate crisis support, contact the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline by calling or texting 988.

Understanding Treatment and Insurance

We work with most major insurance plans and can verify your benefits before your first appointment. For questions about rates and insurance, our administrative team is available to help you understand your coverage.

Many insurance plans now provide enhanced coverage for maternal mental health services, recognizing the importance of supporting mothers during this critical period.

Taking the First Step

Reaching out for support can feel overwhelming, especially when you’re exhausted and caring for a newborn. We’ve designed our intake process to be as simple as possible:

Contact our office by calling 201-862-7871 or filling out our online contact form
Speak with Dr. Lukin about your needs and what you hope to achieve through therapy
Get matched with the right therapist for your situation, whether that’s our maternal mental health specialist Carrie Fogel, LCSW, PMH-C, or another clinician whose expertise aligns with your needs
Schedule your first appointment at a time and location (or via teletherapy) that works for you

The Path Forward

Maternal mental health challenges are real, common, and most importantly—treatable. You don’t have to struggle alone or wait for things to get better on their own. With the right support, you can feel like yourself again, bond with your baby, and find joy in motherhood alongside its challenges.

The transition to motherhood is one of life’s most profound experiences. At the Lukin Center for Psychotherapy, we’re honored to support mothers as they navigate this journey, helping them build the mental health foundation they need to thrive—not just survive—as parents.

Whether you’re struggling with postpartum depression, experiencing anxiety about your baby’s wellbeing, processing birth trauma, or simply feeling overwhelmed by the magnitude of this life change, compassionate, specialized support is available. You deserve care that honors your experience while providing practical tools for healing and growth.

Schedule Your Appointment Today

Take the first step toward feeling better. Our maternal mental health services are available across all seven of our Northern New Jersey locations and through secure telehealth. Contact us today at 201-862-7871 or visit our contact page to begin your journey toward maternal mental health and wellbeing.

For more information about our approach to mental health treatment, explore our pages on women’s issues, anxiety treatment, and depression therapy. You can also learn more about life transitions and how therapy can support you through major changes in life.

Remember: you’re not alone, help is available, and feeling better is possible. Let us partner with you on your path to maternal mental health and wellness.

With offices in Chatham, Englewood, Hoboken, Jersey City, Montclair, Ridgewood, and Westfield, we're here to help. Reach out at 201-862-7871 to discover your best fit therapist.

Konstantin Lukin, Ph.D | Lukin Center Psychotherapy

Konstantin Lukin, Ph.D., is a licensed clinical psychologist, author, speaker, and researcher specializing in men’s issues, couple’s counseling, and obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD). He is the Director and Co-Founder of the Lukin Center, northern New Jersey’s premiere evidence-based psychotherapy practice. The Lukin Center emphasizes evidence-based treatments such as emotion-focused therapy for couples, and cognitive and dialectical behavioral therapies for children, adolescents, and adults. Since its inception, the Lukin Center has grown to include testing and assessment as well as medication management services. As a therapist, Dr. Lukin focuses on providing support and practical feedback to help clients effectively address personal life challenges. He integrates complementary modalities and techniques – including cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), schema-focused therapy, and emotion-focused therapy (EFT) – to offer a personalized approach tailored to each client. With compassion and understanding, he works with his clients to help them build on their strengths and attain the personal growth to which they are committed. Dr. Lukin has extensive experience in private practice, conducting outpatient therapy with children, adolescents, and adults. He also has extensive clinical and research experience with people of all ages and their families, including those diagnosed as severely and persistently mentally ill, in both inpatient and outpatient settings. He has co-led groups for children, adolescents, and adults diagnosed with OCD in an outpatient setting. He is trained and experienced in administering a variety of psychological test batteries including neuropsychological, cognitive, and personality assessments, and he has conducted diagnostic and intake interviews and prepared evaluation reports. Dr. Lukin is a graduate of the Honors College at SUNY at Stony Brook, and earned his doctorate from Fairleigh Dickinson University.