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Do You Give Until It Hurts? By Fern Weis
Have you read the book by Shel Silverstein called The Giving Tree? It's an illustrated children's book about a boy and the tree who...


Honey, I Shrunk the Kid (Her Motivation, That Is) by Fern Weis
“Four As and a B- in math. That’s a good report card, but… how are we going to get that math grade up?” Has that conversation ever taken...


6 Steps for Teens to be Empowered Creators of their Universe by Fern Weis, Parent + Family Recovery
You are surrounded by people, and yet you feel alone. Your kids are connected to others through their devices, but don’t really ‘feel’...


Raising the Bar, One Notch at a Time by Fern Weis
What does raising the bar look like for you? What expectations do you have for your children? Setting high expectations is a good thing,...


You Have the Answers, Why Aren’t You Listening? By Fern Weis
"Trust yourself. You know more than you think you do." Dr. Benjamin Spock It's so true. You have an innate wisdom that is 'spot on'...


The Brick Wall: 6 Steps to Teach Your Teen to Overcome Obstacles by Fern Weis
"Experience is what you get when you didn't get what you wanted. It's a phrase worth considering at every brick wall we encounter, and at...


Lost in Transitions by Fern Weis, Parent and Family Recovery Coach
Transitions. Today my daughter returns to her home nearly 6,000 miles away. Sarah visited for two weeks and it's time for her to go...


An Inspiring Life Lies Outside Your Comfort Zone by Fern Weis
We talk blithely about getting out of our comfort zone. And while we recognize that we need to be challenged to go somewhere...


BALM For a Sad and Hurting Heart by Fern Weis
Imagine. A high school student’s grades are slipping. She’s never been a really social kid, and seems to be a little quieter and more...


When in Doubt, DO Act on Suspicion of Drug Use by Fern Weis
"When in doubt, don't." The version that I heard from my parents was, "If you'd be embarrassed to tell me about it, then don't do it." ...


10 Study Skills to Learn More, Retain More and Get Better Grades by Fern Weis
Most children have to learn how to study, and some need to learn how to learn. If the material is difficult or boring, if they have...


Adoptive Parents Committee Welcomes Guest Speaker Guest Speaker: Steven Tobias, Psy. D. - “Nature v
Saturday, November 5, 2016 6:00 pm – 8:00 pm Location: The Kinnelon Library 132 Kinnelon Road, Kinnelon, NJ *FREE Event Dr. Steven Tobias...


Be Direct - Don’t Beat Around the Bush by Fern Weis
Do you say what you really mean, or do you tiptoe around it? Be direct. Stop beating around the bush! (By the way, here is the origin...


4 Criteria for a Good Teen Therapist by Fern Weis
“Finding a good therapist is extremely hard. Finding a good teen therapist can be even more challenging.” So begins the article from my...


NO WALLOWING ALLOWED! By Fern Weis
The dictionary definition of ‘commiserate’ is to feel or express sympathy. How many times has that turned into a ‘being miserable...


Watch Out for Devious Dogs (And Other Back-to-School Tips) by Fern Weis
I really couldn’t resist. This began as a share of a cute animal picture, and then the real, useful information just kept coming. So...


When Going through the Motions Is a Good Thing by Fern Weis
When you hear the expression ‘going through the motions’, what comes to mind? Making a mediocre effort, yessing someone, lack of buy-in,...


TIP: Leaders Give Credit to Others by Fern Weis
Do you want your kids to be able to make friends, influence people and be seen as a leader? One of the qualities of a respected friend,...


Staying Positive with Teens – Turn a ‘Don’t’ Into a ‘Do’ by Fern Weis
A positive attitude (or even a less negative attitude) has the potential to change lives. This came through loud and clear while reading...


Managing Your Anger (When You’d Rather Pitch a Fit) by Fern Weis
Anger has the power to derail you and the people around you. Staying in anger keeps you estranged from your creativity and greatest...
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