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Building the Winning Mindset: Mental Skills Every Young Athlete Needs by Lukin Center Performance Center

  • Writer: Bergen County Moms
    Bergen County Moms
  • Sep 24, 2025
  • 2 min read

Updated: Oct 2, 2025

Two women converse in a sports stadium. One holds a water bottle, the other gestures with her hand. Bright, empty seating in the background.

Do you want to help your athlete perform at their best, no matter the game or stage? Peak performance isn’t just about physical ability—mental skills often make the difference. These skills aren’t innate; children can be trained to develop the focus, resilience, and confidence needed to excel in high-pressure situations.


Here are three evidence-based mental skills that help athletes thrive under pressure:


1️⃣ Breath Control – Learn to manage nerves and recover quickly during high-pressure moments.

2️⃣ Positive Self-Talk – Replace self-doubt with constructive, focused thoughts.

3️⃣ Confidence Training – Build belief in their abilities to play consistently and courageously.


These techniques are the same strategies used by elite athletes to stay composed, perform under pressure, and bounce back from mistakes.


Whether you are an athlete, coach, or parent, the Lukin Center Performance Program helps build self-awareness and confidence, prevent burnout, enhance decision-making under pressure, and develop personalized mental performance plans.


Strengthen Mental Performance for Long-Term Athletic Success


Build Self-Awareness and Confidence

Help athletes overcome self-doubt, silence negative self-talk, and break through mental barriers that limit their potential. A more self-aware athlete is a more coachable and consistent performer.


Prevent Burnout and Promote Balance

Support sustainable growth by reinforcing a healthy athletic identity. When athletes stay connected to their purpose, they remain motivated, inspired, and resilient—season after season.


Enhance Focus and Decision-Making Under Pressure

Equip athletes with science-backed mindfulness tools to manage stress, bounce back from setbacks, and sharpen their in-game focus and response time.


Develop Personalized Mental Game Plans

Whether you’re coaching one athlete or managing an entire program, tailor mental performance strategies to each individual’s challenges, sport, and long-term goals. This is the foundation for peak performance—built on purpose, not pressure.


Supporting your athlete in strengthening their mental game helps them not only thrive in sports but also succeed in life. Click here to learn more about the Lukin Center Performance Program.


Lukin Center for Psychotherapy, Bergen County Moms

20 Wilsey Square | Ridgewood, NJ 07450 | (551) 427-2458

1 Engle Street, Suite 202 | Englewood, NJ 07631 | (201) 409-0376

80 River Street, Suite 302 | Hoboken, NJ 07030 | (917) 903-1901

7 Montgomery Street, Suite 502 | Jersey City, NJ 07302 | (201) 577-8124

​51 Upper Montclair Plaza | Montclair, NJ 07034 | (973) 787-4470

128 S. Euclid Avenue | Westfield, NJ 07090 | (908) 509-8336


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