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Social Anxiety Therapy in New Jersey: Expert Treatment for Social Phobia by Dr. Konstantin Lukin, Ph.D.

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Living with social anxiety disorder can feel isolating, especially in New Jersey’s bustling communities from Jersey City to Chatham. At Lukin Center for Psychotherapy, we understand that social anxiety is more than just shyness—it’s a treatable mental health condition that affects millions of people across the United States.


Social anxiety disorder (also called social phobia) causes intense fear and anxiety in social situations where you might be judged, embarrassed, or scrutinized by others. Whether you’re struggling with public speaking, meeting new people, or simply having conversations in everyday settings, our experienced therapists across seven Northern New Jersey locations can help you reclaim your confidence and quality of life.


Understanding Social Anxiety Disorder


Social anxiety disorder affects approximately 12.1% of U.S. adults at some point in their lives, according to the National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH). This makes it one of the most common mental health conditions in America, yet many people suffer in silence without seeking the evidence-based treatment that could transform their lives.


Unlike typical nervousness before a big presentation or first date, social anxiety disorder creates persistent, overwhelming fear that interferes with daily functioning. People with social anxiety often spend significant time worrying about upcoming social situations, dreading interactions that others might find routine or even enjoyable.


The Difference Between Shyness and Social Anxiety


It’s important to distinguish between shyness and clinical social anxiety disorder. Shyness is a personality trait that might make someone feel uncomfortable in certain social situations, but it doesn’t significantly impair their ability to function. Social anxiety disorder, however, creates debilitating fear that can prevent people from pursuing career opportunities, forming relationships, or participating in activities they would otherwise enjoy.


While a shy person might feel nervous at a party but still attend and eventually warm up, someone with social anxiety might avoid the party entirely, experience panic symptoms if forced to attend, or leave early due to overwhelming distress. This level of impairment distinguishes a diagnosable anxiety disorder from normal social discomfort.


Common Symptoms of Social Anxiety


Social anxiety manifests through emotional, physical, and behavioral symptoms that can vary in intensity from person to person. Recognizing these symptoms is the first step toward seeking effective treatment.


Emotional and Cognitive Symptoms


People with social anxiety disorder often experience:


  • Intense fear of judgment, criticism, or rejection from others

  • Excessive worry about embarrassing yourself in social situations

  • Fear of others noticing your anxiety symptoms

  • Extreme self-consciousness and feeling like you’re “on stage”

  • Difficulty accepting compliments or positive feedback

  • Harsh self-criticism and negative self-talk

  • Persistent worry about upcoming social events days or weeks in advance

  • Rumination about perceived social mistakes long after events have passed

  • Fear that others are analyzing your every word and action

  • Difficulty making decisions due to fear of making the “wrong” choice in front of others


Physical Symptoms


The body’s fight-or-flight response triggers numerous physical symptoms during anxiety-provoking social situations:


  • Rapid heartbeat or pounding pulse

  • Trembling or shaking hands and voice

  • Excessive sweating, especially in the palms or underarms

  • Blushing or feeling your face become hot

  • Nausea or upset stomach

  • Muscle tension, particularly in the shoulders and neck

  • Dizziness or lightheadedness

  • Difficulty breathing or feeling short of breath

  • Dry mouth making it difficult to speak

  • Chest tightness


According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), these physical symptoms result from the body’s natural stress response and are not dangerous, though they can feel frightening and reinforce avoidance behaviors.


Behavioral Symptoms and Avoidance Patterns


Social anxiety typically leads to avoidance behaviors that provide temporary relief but reinforce the disorder long-term:


  • Declining invitations to social gatherings, parties, or networking events

  • Avoiding situations where you might be the center of attention

  • Difficulty making eye contact during conversations

  • Speaking very quietly or with a shaky voice

  • Using alcohol or substances to cope with social situations

  • Remaining silent in group discussions or meetings

  • Canceling plans at the last minute due to anxiety

  • Relying on “safety behaviors” like staying near exits or bringing a trusted companion

  • Excessive preparation or rehearsing for social interactions

  • Leaving social situations early or avoiding them entirely


Situations That Trigger Social Anxiety


While social anxiety can occur in virtually any social setting, certain situations commonly trigger intense anxiety:


Performance and Public Speaking


Speaking in front of groups—whether giving a presentation at work, toasting at a wedding, or simply answering a question in a meeting—represents one of the most common triggers for social anxiety. The fear isn’t just about public speaking itself, but about being judged, making mistakes, or appearing incompetent in front of others.


Everyday Social Interactions


People with social anxiety often struggle with seemingly simple interactions that others take for granted:


  • Making phone calls, especially to unfamiliar people or businesses

  • Eating or drinking in front of others

  • Using public restrooms

  • Writing while being observed

  • Attending parties or social gatherings

  • Dating and romantic situations

  • Job interviews

  • Asking questions in stores or restaurants

  • Small talk with neighbors, coworkers, or acquaintances


Meeting New People


Introducing yourself, starting conversations, and meeting new people can provoke significant anxiety. This challenge is particularly problematic in New Jersey’s diverse, densely populated communities where social and professional networking opportunities are frequent.


Work and School Settings


Social anxiety often impacts professional and educational performance:


  • Participating in meetings or classroom discussions

  • Eating lunch in break rooms or cafeterias

  • Working in open office environments

  • Attending company events or school functions

  • Collaborating on group projects

  • Receiving feedback or performance reviews


What Causes Social Anxiety Disorder?


Social anxiety disorder develops through a complex interaction of biological, psychological, and environmental factors. Understanding these causes can help reduce shame and recognize that social anxiety is a legitimate mental health condition, not a character flaw or personal weakness.


Biological and Genetic Factors


Research published by the National Institute of Mental Health indicates that anxiety disorders, including social anxiety, tend to run in families. If you have a parent or sibling with social anxiety or another anxiety disorder, you’re more likely to develop it yourself.


Neurobiological factors also play a role. The amygdala, a brain structure involved in fear responses, may be overactive in people with social anxiety disorder. This heightened sensitivity can cause you to perceive neutral social situations as threatening, triggering intense anxiety responses to everyday interactions.


Environmental and Developmental Factors


Life experiences significantly influence the development of social anxiety:


Childhood Experiences:

Overprotective or controlling parenting styles, parental modeling of anxious behaviors, or childhood social isolation can contribute to social anxiety development. Children who were frequently criticized, humiliated, or rejected may carry these experiences into adulthood.


Bullying and Teasing:

Being bullied, teased, or rejected—particularly during formative years—strongly correlates with later development of social anxiety. The fear of similar experiences occurring in the future can generalize to many social situations.


Traumatic Social Experiences:

A single highly embarrassing or humiliating experience can sometimes trigger social anxiety, especially in adolescents and young adults whose sense of self is still developing.


New Social or Professional Demands:

Starting college, beginning a new job, moving to a new city, or taking on leadership responsibilities can trigger social anxiety, particularly in people with underlying vulnerability to the condition.


Temperament and Personality


Behavioral inhibition—a tendency to withdraw from or react negatively to unfamiliar people or situations—is a temperamental trait observed even in infancy that predicts later development of social anxiety. While not everyone with this temperament develops social anxiety disorder, it represents a significant risk factor, especially when combined with other contributing elements.


The Impact of Untreated Social Anxiety


Without proper treatment, social anxiety disorder can significantly impair quality of life and lead to serious complications. Understanding these potential consequences underscores the importance of seeking professional help.


Professional and Educational Consequences


Social anxiety can limit career advancement and educational achievement:


  • Avoiding job interviews or promotion opportunities

  • Difficulty networking or building professional relationships

  • Underemployment relative to skills and qualifications

  • Trouble speaking up in meetings or advocating for yourself

  • Avoiding leadership roles despite capability

  • Academic underperformance due to fear of class participation

  • Difficulty completing group projects or presentations


These professional limitations can have long-term financial implications and prevent you from achieving career goals that would otherwise be within reach.


Relationship and Social Consequences


Social anxiety profoundly affects personal relationships:


  • Difficulty forming and maintaining friendships

  • Social isolation and loneliness

  • Challenges in romantic relationships and dating

  • Strained family relationships due to avoiding gatherings

  • Reduced social support network

  • Missing important life events (weddings, celebrations, etc.)


The Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) emphasizes that social connection is fundamental to mental health, making the isolation caused by social anxiety particularly concerning.



Co-Occurring Mental Health Conditions


Untreated social anxiety significantly increases risk for:


Depression:

The isolation, loneliness, and perceived failure associated with social anxiety frequently lead to depression. Research shows that approximately 70% of people with social anxiety disorder will experience a major depressive episode at some point in their lives.


Substance Use Disorders:

Many people with social anxiety turn to alcohol or drugs to cope with social situations or numb their distress. This “self-medication” can quickly develop into substance dependence, creating a secondary problem that requires treatment.


Other Anxiety Disorders:

Social anxiety commonly co-occurs with generalized anxiety disorder, panic disorder, and specific phobias, creating a more complex clinical picture.


Physical Health Consequences


Chronic anxiety takes a toll on physical health:


  • Cardiovascular problems from persistent stress

  • Weakened immune system

  • Gastrointestinal issues

  • Chronic muscle tension and pain

  • Sleep disturbances and insomnia

  • Increased risk of stress-related illnesses


Evidence-Based Treatment Approaches for Social Anxiety


The good news is that social anxiety disorder is highly treatable with evidence-based psychotherapy approaches. At Lukin Center for Psychotherapy, our experienced therapists utilize proven treatment methods tailored to each individual’s needs.


Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) for Social Anxiety


Cognitive Behavioral Therapy represents the gold standard treatment for social anxiety disorder, with decades of research supporting its effectiveness. CBT helps you identify and change the negative thought patterns and beliefs that fuel social anxiety.

In CBT for social anxiety, you’ll work with your therapist to:


Identify Cognitive Distortions:

Learn to recognize thinking patterns that amplify anxiety, such as catastrophizing (“I’ll make a fool of myself and everyone will think I’m incompetent”), mind reading (“They think I’m boring”), or all-or-nothing thinking (“If I’m not perfect, I’m a complete failure”).


Challenge Negative Thoughts:

Examine the evidence for and against your anxious predictions. Most fearful thoughts don’t withstand logical scrutiny when examined objectively.


Develop Realistic Thinking:

Replace distorted thoughts with more balanced, realistic perspectives that acknowledge both potential challenges and your ability to cope with them.


Behavioral Experiments:

Test your anxious predictions in real-world situations to gather evidence about what actually happens versus what you fear will happen.


The American Psychological Association recognizes CBT as a first-line treatment for anxiety disorders, including social anxiety disorder.


Exposure Therapy: Facing Your Fears Systematically


Exposure therapy is a core component of effective social anxiety treatment and can be incorporated into CBT or used as a standalone approach. The principle behind exposure therapy is straightforward: by gradually and repeatedly facing feared social situations, you learn that your predictions rarely come true and that you can tolerate the discomfort.


How Exposure Therapy Works:


Your therapist will help you create a hierarchy of feared situations, ranking them from least to most anxiety-provoking. You’ll then systematically work through this hierarchy, starting with situations that cause moderate anxiety and progressively moving to more challenging scenarios.


For example, your hierarchy might include:


  1. Making eye contact with a stranger for three seconds (low anxiety)

  2. Asking a store employee where to find an item (moderate anxiety)

  3. Introducing yourself to a new coworker (moderate-high anxiety)

  4. Eating lunch in a crowded cafeteria (high anxiety)

  5. Giving a presentation to your team (very high anxiety)


During exposure exercises, you’ll practice staying in the situation long enough for your anxiety to decrease naturally—a process called habituation. Over time and with repeated exposures, situations that once triggered intense fear become manageable or even comfortable.


Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)


Acceptance and Commitment Therapy offers a different approach to managing social anxiety. Rather than focusing primarily on changing thoughts, ACT emphasizes accepting uncomfortable feelings while committing to actions aligned with your values.


In ACT for social anxiety, you’ll learn to:


  • Notice anxious thoughts without getting caught up in them

  • Accept uncomfortable physical sensations rather than fighting them

  • Identify your personal values around relationships, career, and community

  • Take action consistent with those values even when anxiety is present

  • Develop psychological flexibility to respond effectively to various situations


ACT can be particularly helpful for people who feel exhausted from constantly fighting their anxiety or who have struggled with traditional CBT approaches.


Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) Skills


While Dialectical Behavior Therapy was originally developed for other conditions, specific DBT skills are highly effective for managing social anxiety:


Mindfulness:

Learning to observe your thoughts and feelings without judgment helps you respond to social situations more skillfully rather than reacting based on anxiety.


Distress Tolerance:

These skills help you cope with uncomfortable emotions in the moment without resorting to avoidance or other problematic behaviors.


Emotion Regulation:

Understanding and managing intense emotions prevents anxiety from spiraling out of control.


Interpersonal Effectiveness:

DBT teaches specific skills for communicating effectively, setting boundaries, and maintaining self-respect in relationships—all areas where social anxiety often creates challenges.


Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)


For people whose social anxiety stems from traumatic social experiences (bullying, humiliation, rejection), EMDR therapy can help process these memories and reduce their emotional impact. EMDR uses bilateral stimulation (typically eye movements) to help your brain process traumatic memories more adaptively.


Group Therapy for Social Anxiety


While it might seem counterintuitive, group therapy offers unique benefits for social anxiety treatment. In a structured, supportive group setting, you can:


  • Practice social skills in a safe environment

  • Receive feedback and support from people who truly understand your struggles

  • Challenge distorted beliefs by hearing others’ perspectives

  • Gain exposure to social situations in a controlled, therapeutic context

  • Build confidence through successive positive social experiences


Medication Options for Social Anxiety


While psychotherapy remains the first-line treatment for social anxiety disorder, medication can be helpful for some people, particularly those with severe symptoms or co-occurring conditions. Our psychiatry practice offers comprehensive medication management when appropriate.


Common Medication Options


Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors (SSRIs):

Medications like sertraline (Zoloft), paroxetine (Paxil), and fluoxetine (Prozac) are commonly prescribed for social anxiety. SSRIs can take several weeks to become fully effective but often provide significant symptom reduction.


Serotonin-Norepinephrine Reuptake Inhibitors (SNRIs):

Venlafaxine (Effexor) is another antidepressant that has shown effectiveness for social anxiety disorder.


Beta-Blockers: For performance anxiety specifically, beta-blockers like propranolol can reduce physical symptoms (racing heart, trembling) without affecting cognitive function.


Benzodiazepines:

While occasionally prescribed for short-term relief, benzodiazepines carry risks of dependence and are generally not recommended for long-term social anxiety treatment.


According to the National Institute of Mental Health, medication works best when combined with psychotherapy, as therapy addresses the underlying thought patterns and avoidance behaviors that maintain social anxiety.


Why Choose Lukin Center for Social Anxiety Treatment?


As Northern New Jersey’s largest mental health practice, Lukin Center for Psychotherapy offers unique advantages for treating social anxiety disorder:


Personalized Clinician Matching

Dr. Konstantin Lukin personally matches every patient with a therapist who has the specific expertise, training, and personality to help you achieve the best outcomes. This personalized approach ensures you work with someone you trust and feel comfortable with—essential for addressing social anxiety.


Comprehensive Evidence-Based Treatment

Our therapists are extensively trained in proven treatment modalities specifically for anxiety disorders. Whether you need CBT with exposure therapy, ACT, DBT skills training, or a combination of approaches, we have the expertise to help.


Integrated Care

With in-house psychiatry services, you can receive both therapy and medication management (if needed) in one coordinated treatment plan, eliminating the confusion of working with separate providers.


Flexible Treatment Options

We offer both in-person sessions at our seven convenient locations across Northern New Jersey and teletherapy via HIPAA-compliant Doxy.me platform, allowing you to choose the format that works best for your needs and comfort level.


Specialized Programs


Beyond individual therapy, we offer specialized programs that can complement social anxiety treatment:



Location-Specific Social Anxiety Treatment Across New Jersey


We understand that seeking treatment for social anxiety is already challenging—you shouldn’t have to travel far for excellent care. Lukin Center serves seven communities throughout Northern New Jersey:


Our Jersey City location at 75 Montgomery Street offers convenient access for Hudson County residents struggling with social anxiety. Whether you’re navigating the professional demands of working in Manhattan or dealing with social challenges in Jersey City’s diverse community, our therapists understand the unique pressures you face.


Located at 80 River Street, our Hoboken office serves residents throughout Hudson County. Hoboken’s young professional community and active social scene can be particularly challenging for those with social anxiety—our therapists specialize in helping you participate fully in the life you want to live.


Our Chatham location at 97 Main Street provides accessible care for Morris County residents. Whether you’re dealing with social anxiety in professional settings, family gatherings, or community events, we can help.


At 1 Engle Street in Englewood, we serve Bergen County communities. Our therapists understand the social pressures in this affluent area and can help you feel confident in any setting.


Located at 51 Upper Montclair Plaza, our Montclair office offers comprehensive social anxiety treatment for Essex County residents in a welcoming, professional environment.


Our Ridgewood location at 20 Wilsey Square serves Bergen County communities with evidence-based social anxiety treatment tailored to your unique needs.


At 128 S Euclid Avenue, our Westfield office provides accessible treatment for Union County residents navigating social anxiety challenges.


Practical Coping Strategies for Social Anxiety


While professional treatment is essential for overcoming social anxiety, these evidence-based strategies can help you manage symptoms between sessions:


Breathing and Relaxation Techniques


Diaphragmatic Breathing:

Slow, deep breathing activates your body’s relaxation response, counteracting the physical symptoms of anxiety. Practice breathing in for four counts, holding for four, and exhaling for six.


Progressive Muscle Relaxation:

Systematically tensing and releasing muscle groups helps reduce physical tension and increases body awareness.


Grounding Techniques:

When anxiety spikes, use the 5-4-3-2-1 technique: identify 5 things you can see, 4 you can touch, 3 you can hear, 2 you can smell, and 1 you can taste.


Cognitive Techniques


Realistic Thinking:

When anxious thoughts arise, ask yourself: “What evidence supports this thought? What evidence contradicts it? What would I tell a friend having this thought?”


Probability Estimation:

Consider the actual likelihood of your feared outcome. Often, what feels certain in the moment is actually quite unlikely.


Decatastrophizing:

If your fear did come true, could you cope? What would you do? Usually, even “worst case scenarios” are manageable.


Behavioral Strategies


Start Small:

Don’t try to tackle your biggest fears immediately. Begin with situations that cause mild to moderate anxiety and build from there.


Stay in Situations:

When anxiety spikes, resist the urge to escape immediately. Staying until your anxiety naturally decreases teaches your brain that the situation is safe.


Reduce Safety Behaviors:

Gradually eliminate subtle avoidance behaviors like avoiding eye contact, over-preparing for conversations, or staying near exits.


Self-Compassion:

Treat yourself with the same kindness you’d offer a good friend. Progress isn’t linear, and setbacks are normal parts of recovery.


Social Anxiety in Different Life Stages


Social anxiety can affect people of all ages, but it manifests somewhat differently across developmental stages:


Social Anxiety in Children and Adolescents


Social anxiety often first appears during adolescence, a time when peer relationships become central and self-consciousness peaks. Warning signs include:


  • Refusal to participate in class despite knowing the material

  • Extreme distress about school presentations

  • Difficulty making or keeping friends

  • Physical complaints before school or social events

  • Excessive worry about being embarrassed


Early intervention is crucial, as social anxiety in adolescence predicts continued problems in adulthood if left untreated. Our therapists specialize in child and adolescent therapy, helping young people develop confidence before social anxiety becomes entrenched.


Social Anxiety in Adults


Adult social anxiety often centers on professional situations, romantic relationships, and major life transitions. Adults may have developed extensive avoidance patterns over years, but research shows that social anxiety remains highly treatable regardless of how long you’ve experienced it.


Social Anxiety in Relationships


Social anxiety significantly impacts romantic relationships. Fear of vulnerability, rejection, or being seen as inadequate can prevent people from forming close connections. Couples therapy can help partners understand how social anxiety affects their relationship and develop strategies for supporting each other.


The Role of Family in Social Anxiety Treatment


Family therapy can play an important supporting role in social anxiety treatment, particularly for children and adolescents. Family members can learn to:


  • Understand social anxiety rather than dismissing it as “just shyness”

  • Provide appropriate encouragement without pushing too hard

  • Avoid accommodating avoidance behaviors

  • Celebrate small victories and progress

  • Manage their own anxiety about their loved one’s struggles


Specialized Considerations for Social Anxiety Treatment


Social Anxiety in the LGBTQIA+ Community

Members of the LGBTQIA+ community may experience unique social anxiety triggers related to identity disclosure, fear of discrimination, and navigating heteronormative social spaces. Our therapists provide affirming, culturally competent care that addresses these specific concerns.


Social Anxiety and Neurodiversity

People with ADHD, autism spectrum disorder, or other neurological differences may experience social challenges that interact with or mimic social anxiety. Our comprehensive assessment services can clarify diagnoses and ensure treatment targets the right issues.


Social Anxiety and Substance Use

If you’ve been using alcohol or other substances to manage social anxiety, addressing both concerns simultaneously is essential. Our integrated approach can help you develop healthier coping strategies while treating the underlying substance use issues.


Social Anxiety and Depression

The isolation and perceived failure associated with social anxiety frequently leads to depression. Our therapists can address both conditions comprehensively, helping you reconnect with meaningful activities and relationships while building social confidence.


Taking the First Step: What to Expect


We understand that reaching out for help when you have social anxiety requires courage. Here’s what you can expect when you contact Lukin Center:


Initial Contact


You can call us at 201-849-7085 or email info@lukincenter.com. You’ll speak with a member of our administrative team who will gather basic information and schedule your initial consultation. This conversation is brief and focused on logistics—no pressure to share details you’re not ready to discuss.


Dr. Lukin’s Triage Process


Dr. Konstantin Lukin will personally speak with you to understand what you hope to achieve through therapy. This conversation helps him match you with the ideal therapist for your specific needs, background, and personality. Learn more about the Lukin Center difference.


First Therapy Session


Your first session with your matched therapist focuses on building rapport and understanding your experience with social anxiety. You’ll discuss:


  • When your social anxiety started and how it has evolved

  • Situations that trigger your anxiety

  • How social anxiety impacts your daily life

  • Your goals for treatment

  • Your therapist’s recommended treatment approach


Insurance and Payment


We accept most major insurance plans and can verify your coverage before your first appointment. Learn more about rates and insurance.


Frequently Asked Questions About Social Anxiety Therapy


How long does treatment for social anxiety take?

Treatment length varies based on symptom severity and individual factors, but many people notice improvement within 12-16 weeks of consistent cognitive behavioral therapy. More severe social anxiety or co-occurring conditions may require longer treatment.


Will I have to face my biggest fears immediately?

No. Exposure therapy uses gradual, systematic approaches. You and your therapist will create a hierarchy of feared situations and work through them progressively, always at a pace you can manage.


Can I overcome social anxiety without medication?

Many people successfully overcome social anxiety through psychotherapy alone. Medication can be helpful for some individuals but isn’t necessary for everyone.


Is teletherapy effective for social anxiety?

Research shows teletherapy is equally effective as in-person therapy for anxiety disorders. Our secure teletherapy platform provides convenient access to treatment from anywhere in New Jersey.


What if I’m too anxious to come to my first appointment?

This is completely understandable and quite common. We can start with a phone consultation or teletherapy session if that feels more manageable. Your therapist will work at your pace.


Start Your Journey to Social Confidence Today


Social anxiety doesn’t have to control your life. With evidence-based treatment from experienced therapists who understand exactly what you’re going through, you can develop the confidence to pursue the career you want, build meaningful relationships, and participate fully in life.


At Lukin Center for Psychotherapy, we’ve helped hundreds of people across Northern New Jersey overcome social anxiety and reclaim their lives. Our comprehensive approach, personalized matching process, and commitment to evidence-based treatment gives you the best possible chance of success.


Ready to Take the Next Step?

Contact us today to schedule your initial consultation:

Phone: 201-849-7085


Life-changing results start here. Let us help you write your success story.





Konstantin Lukin, Ph.D | Lukin Center Psychotherapy
Konstantin Lukin, Ph.D | Lukin Center Psychotherapy

Konstantin Lukin, Ph.D., is a licensed clinical psychologist, author, speaker, and researcher specializing in men’s issues, couple’s counseling, and obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD). He is the Director and Co-Founder of the Lukin Center, northern New Jersey’s premiere evidence-based psychotherapy practice. The Lukin Center emphasizes evidence-based treatments such as emotion-focused therapy for couples, and cognitive and dialectical behavioral therapies for children, adolescents, and adults. Since its inception, the Lukin Center has grown to include testing and assessment as well as medication management services. As a therapist, Dr. Lukin focuses on providing support and practical feedback to help clients effectively address personal life challenges. He integrates complementary modalities and techniques – including cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), schema-focused therapy, and emotion-focused therapy (EFT) – to offer a personalized approach tailored to each client. With compassion and understanding, he works with his clients to help them build on their strengths and attain the personal growth to which they are committed. Dr. Lukin has extensive experience in private practice, conducting outpatient therapy with children, adolescents, and adults. He also has extensive clinical and research experience with people of all ages and their families, including those diagnosed as severely and persistently mentally ill, in both inpatient and outpatient settings. He has co-led groups for children, adolescents, and adults diagnosed with OCD in an outpatient setting. He is trained and experienced in administering a variety of psychological test batteries including neuropsychological, cognitive, and personality assessments, and he has conducted diagnostic and intake interviews and prepared evaluation reports. Dr. Lukin is a graduate of the Honors College at SUNY at Stony Brook, and earned his doctorate from Fairleigh Dickinson University.


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