Are You Suffering in Silence? By Fern Weis, Parent + Family Recovery Coach

Parenting a teen can be one of the most rewarding experiences—and one of the most isolating.

On the outside, you may look like you’re holding it together. You go to work, take care of responsibilities, and put on a brave face. But on the inside, you may be hurting, confused, or overwhelmed by the challenges you and your child are facing.

Yes, it takes courage to admit that what’s going on is beyond your ability to fix on your own. Many parents feel they should “know what to do,” and that needing help somehow means they’ve failed. But nothing could be further from the truth.

The reality is, you’re not supposed to go through this alone. Parenting was never meant to be a solo journey. In earlier times, families and communities surrounded parents with guidance and support. Today, too many moms and dads suffer in silence, thinking they have to figure it out by themselves.

Seeking support is not weakness—it’s strength. It’s a clear, powerful message that you care enough about your child, and about yourself, to step outside of your comfort zone.

When you ask for help, you’re saying, “I refuse to let this distressing status quo run the show.” That doesn’t make you a failure. It makes you a warrior for a better future.

Your child is counting on you to take this step. They may not say it, and they may even push you away, but deep down they need you to show up differently. They need a parent who is grounded, calm, and equipped with new tools to guide them toward a more secure and confident life.

I’m here to be your trusted guide, teacher, and mentor. Let’s do this together.

I am here to support you. It's simple to begin. I'm happy to gift you with a 30-minute, free Parent Support Call. Click HERE.

Fern Weis | Parent + Family Recovery Coach

Fern Weis is a certified life coach who learned that caring and good intentions are not enough in parenting. In fact, they are often the problem! Fern supports parents of teens and young adults who are going through difficult situations, including addiction recovery. She helps parents release guilt, end enabling and confidently prepare their children to thrive through life's challenges. Her articles are featured in Thrive Global, Medium, Motherly, The Teen Mentor, and Bergen County Moms.

Learn more about coaching and classes at www.fernweis.com. And then download your free guide, "Five Powerful Steps to Get Your Teen to Talk." For information on Family Recovery programs, visit www.familyrecoverypartners.com.