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A Small Win You Might Miss by Fern Weis, Parent + Family Recovery Coach

  • 2 days ago
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Smiling woman and girl in a bright kitchen, girl kisses her cheek while holding toast; phone and orange juice on the table.

It matters.


If you didn’t raise your voice today…

If you paused before you spoke…

If you softened your tone after starting sharp…


Consider it a win. It counts.


These are invisible wins.

The ones only you are consciously aware of.


They are also the ones that change the course of your relationship.


Notice them.

They matter.


P.S. That sounded a lot more encouraging than "watch your tone," didn't it? There's more gentle guidance and entertaining stories in "Leashes, Lessons, and Love: What Dogs Teach Us About Raising Our Kids and Ourselves."  My new book is filled with real-life stories of my family — and our dogs, of course — to approach parenting with more calm and confidence and the occasional LOL. Get your copy here:  https://fernweisbook.com/book.




Fern Weis is a Parent Coach and Family Recovery Life Coach.
Fern Weis | Parent + Family Recovery Coach

Fern Weis is a certified life coach who learned that caring and good intentions are not enough in parenting. In fact, they are often the problem! Fern supports parents of teens and young adults who are going through difficult situations, including addiction recovery. She helps parents release guilt, end enabling and confidently prepare their children to thrive through life's challenges. Her articles are featured in Thrive Global, Medium, Motherly, The Teen Mentor, and Bergen County Moms.

Learn more about coaching and classes at www.fernweis.com. And then download your free guide, "Five Powerful Steps to Get Your Teen to Talk." For information on Family Recovery programs, visit www.familyrecoverypartners.com.

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